{"id":738,"date":"2024-06-04T01:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-06-04T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/?p=738"},"modified":"2024-08-08T02:10:53","modified_gmt":"2024-08-08T01:10:53","slug":"five-heart-stopping-romantic-novels-that-arent-romances","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/index.php\/2024\/06\/04\/five-heart-stopping-romantic-novels-that-arent-romances\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Heart-Stopping Romantic Novels That Aren&#8217;t Romances"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Romance has two strict genre rules.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Firstly, the love story must be central to the story. Although there can be interweaving subplots, the story is about the protagonists and their relationship. That\u2019s the point. Remove it and there should be nothing left &#8211; no love story, no novel.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Secondly, the ending must be optimistic and emotionally satisfying. The romantic leads must overcome all their obstacles and get it together. They must fall in love, and admit it to each other. It must be \u2018happy ever after\u2019 or, at the very least convincingly \u2018happy for now\u2019. If it doesn\u2019t end well or the romantic leads aren\u2019t together in the end, then it\u2019s not a romance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Romances are process novels. The readers know how it is going to end, they just want to know how the characters got there. It\u2019s the journey, not the destination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Five Not Romances<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>These are some of my very favourite novels. They are love stories, but for years I thought they were romances. It is only now, when I\u2019ve started writing my own, that I\u2019ve realised that they break romance genre conventions. They are all beautiful love stories, but they are not in the romance genre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Spoiler Alert: Because a romance novel is defined by its ending, I give away significant plot points for each novel below. If you like surprises then don\u2019t read on &#8211; however, as I now know, romance fans don\u2019t need surprises. They need happy endings.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Me Before You<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">by Jojo Moyes<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"315\" height=\"475\" src=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Me_Before_You.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-753\" style=\"width:500px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Me_Before_You.jpeg 315w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Me_Before_You-199x300.jpeg 199w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 315px) 100vw, 315px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>A love story between a paraplegic man, Will Traynor, and his carer, Lou Clark.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the characters that make this novel so strong. Lou is amazing. I love her boho outfits, ditzy floatiness, and her amazing emotional strength, and Will Traynor is great too. She is a chaotic delight, and he is a justifiably miserable sod. Of course, Lou thaws Will\u2019s icy exterior, and Will proves to have a heart of gold. It\u2019s a perfect grumpy sunshine romance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Until it\u2019s not. There is no happy ending for the two of them. They don\u2019t get together and they never will. Lou has grown as a person, and Will has found peace &#8211; but not together. So not a romance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, don\u2019t bother with the film. It\u2019s OK, but the chemistry between the leads doesn\u2019t fizz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>One Day<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">by David Nicholls<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"338\" height=\"522\" src=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/one-day.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-755\" style=\"width:550px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/one-day.jpg 338w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/one-day-194x300.jpg 194w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 338px) 100vw, 338px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Recently brilliantly remade as a Netflix miniseries, but the book is just as good and maybe better. It\u2019s one of the <a href=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/index.php\/2023\/12\/03\/softening-after-first-draft\/\">comp titles<\/a> for my work in progress, and like Love And Distraction, its structure is the essence of the story. In One Day the romantic leads meet every Saint Swithin\u2019s day. They are drawn to each other, but never quite get it together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the friends to lovers trope, and over the years they do gradually fall in love. They are made for each other, but it takes over a decade for them to admit it and come together, as they surely must.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the perfect romance, until the end, when David Nicholls, wrenches them apart &#8211; permanently. Not a romance then.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Brooklyn<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">by Colm T\u00f3ib\u00edn<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"307\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/brooklyn.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-756\" style=\"width:500px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/brooklyn.jpeg 307w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/brooklyn-184x300.jpeg 184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 307px) 100vw, 307px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>There was a time when every other book published seemed to be about the immigrant story. After diligently reading all the all recommends, I <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/18723.Brick_Lane\">became jaded<\/a> and looked elsewhere for my fiction fix. So I was a bit unsure when my father recommended Brooklyn for our <a href=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/index.php\/2024\/01\/30\/book-club-with-my-father\/\">bookclub<\/a> read &#8211; more immigrant tales. What more can be said about the theme?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But this is a wonderful book; elegantly written without being overwritten, and sparsely told yet full of warmth. The burgeoning romance between Irish Ellis Lacey and Italian Tony Fiorello is central. It\u2019s beautiful, with the required ups and downs, and it ends well for both of them. They stay together and the book implies that they will be happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not a romance though. If the love story was stripped out of the book, then it would still hold together as a narrative, albeit a far less engaging one. The story is Ellis\u2019s. It\u2019s her character that emigrates from Ireland to New York, and it\u2019s her struggles that we care about. It\u2019s not about Ellis and Tony, it\u2019s just about Ellis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>South Riding<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">by Winifred Holtby<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"734\" src=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/south-riding.avif\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-757\" style=\"width:800px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/south-riding.avif 900w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/south-riding-300x245.avif 300w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/south-riding-768x626.avif 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>An underrated book, that deserves to be more widely read and widely loved. It\u2019s the story of local government in a fictional Yorkshire town. It\u2019s not the most gripping log line, so I understand why it\u2019s not at the top of everyone\u2019s to read list. Nevertheless it is a captivating tale of struggles, disappointment, and triumphs, in an easily forgotten part of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a cast of characters to rival Dickens, but unlike Dickens they aren\u2019t grotesques or caricatures. They are full of life, warmth, hopes and dreams &#8211; you fear the best of them and love the worst.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The two romantic leads, Sarah Burton and Robert Carne are compelling. It\u2019s not quite grumpy sunshine &#8211; he is certainly grumpy but to call Sarah Burton sunshine is to do her a massive disservice. It\u2019s more grumpy \/ radiant super nova and force of nature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it isn\u2019t a romance. They don\u2019t get together in the end. I really really wanted them to, but they didn\u2019t and the book is better for it. Also, there is too much other great stuff happening in the South Riding for it to be a straight romance. It\u2019s classic fiction with a gorgeous love story embedded in its heart. It\u2019s wonderful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Time Traveller\u2019s Wife<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">by Audrey Niffenegger<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Time-travelers-wife-672x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-759\" style=\"width:500px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Time-travelers-wife-672x1024.jpg 672w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Time-travelers-wife-197x300.jpg 197w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Time-travelers-wife-768x1170.jpg 768w, https:\/\/timothypatrickbrown.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Time-travelers-wife.jpg 985w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I love books that make me cry, and this one is a tear-fest.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Henry DeTamble is a librarian with a genetic impairment that causes him to involuntary travel through time. Claire Anne Abshire is his wife. All marriages have their ups and downs, but Henry and Claire have it tough. He often finds himself catapulted into difficult temporal situations and his clothes don\u2019t go with him. He pops up naked all over the place, and pings in and out of Claire\u2019s timeline. But they love each other and their love wins out. They overcome all their obstacles &#8211; until they don\u2019t and Claire and Henry are separated forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But even after the worst has happened, Claire and Henry are still together. He continues to wander up and down her time line, and at the very end of the book he returns to her, when she is eighty and he is a young man. That\u2019s when I cried.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A truly special book, and one of my very favourites. There aren\u2019t many (non-ludicrous) science fiction love stories &#8211; but this is one of them. Probably not a romance though, as Henry and Claire, don\u2019t live happily ever after. Except they kind of do, because Henry comes in and out of time. And what does \u2018happily ever after\u2019 really mean to a time traveller and his wife anyway?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@evertonvila?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash\">Everton Vila<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/woman-on-bike-reaching-for-mans-hand-behind-her-also-on-bike-AsahNlC0VhQ?utm_content=creditCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=unsplash\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Romance has two strict genre rules.&nbsp; Firstly, the love story must be central to the story. Although there can be interweaving subplots, the story is about the protagonists and their relationship. That\u2019s the point. Remove it and there should be nothing left &#8211; no love story, no novel.&nbsp; Secondly, the ending must be optimistic and 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